Whatever your desire, chat love will help you you find what you are looking for... whether it is a friend, a romance, or a soul mate. Before you contact someone, you need to learn how to write an effective personal ad. After all, you don't want your ad to be ignored or worse, give off a negative impression of yourself.

Add a photo and get noticed!

You will be surprised much more responses you will get if you add a photo. You can scan in your photo or take a picture with your digital camera, and can upload it into the dating site. This is a free option and you should take advantage of it, as he/she will want to know what you look like, and better that he finds out sooner than later. After you put your photo online, there are a few things to consider before rushing off to place your ad. Men should write ads to stand out as there is a lot of competition because men outnumber women on the dating sites. A woman should write an ad that specifies qualities and attributes. Read below on how to write effective ads for both men and women. [read more tips]

...And What To Do About It..

Have you ever noticed that the really attractive women never seem to be attracted "nice" guys?
Of course you have.
Just like me, I'm sure you've had attractive female friends that always seemed to date "jerks"... but for some reason they were never romantically interested in YOU.
What's going on here?
It's actually very simple...
Women don't base their choices of men on how "nice" a guy is. They choose the men they do because they feel a powerful GUT LEVEL ATTRACTION for them.
And guess what?
Being nice doesn't make a woman FEEL that powerful ATTRACTION.
And being NICE doesn't make a woman CHOOSE you.
I realize that this doesn't make a lot of logical sense, and it's hard to ACCEPT... but GET OVER IT.
Until you accept this FACT and begin to act on it, you'll NEVER have the success with women that you want.
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